The Single Mom And The Love Letter Part 1.

Happy Birthday

To Courtlynn,

Today is your birthday, and I am an emotional wreck. I cannot believe that you are FOUR already. It seems like it was just yesterday that I was walking into the hospital to have you. These last four years have been nothing short of amazing . You are every bit of your mother’s child and I love every bit of it. From the way you pout when you’re angry, to your quick and witty commentary. You are by far the coolest four year old I know! After sissy was born, I wasn’t sure that I’d ever love anyone else as much, but here you are. My confident, intelligent, and gorgeous baby girl. Last year, your favorite song was Jordin Spark’s Walking On Snow, and now it’s Demi Lovato’s Sorry Not Sorry. Pink is still your favorite color and sissy is still your favorite person. You don’t know what you want to be when you grow up yet, but the sky’s the limit baby girl. Know that no matter how old you get, you will always be mommy’s baby. If I could have one wish on today, it would be for you to know how truly wonderful you are.  I’ve never witnessed a tiny human light up a room the way you do. I pray that as you get older, you continue to let your light shine.  I want you to know that no matter what, mommy and daddy love you so much.  We’ll always work together to be the best parents for you because you deserve nothing but the best. Here’s to you, on your special day. May you have many many many more!!

                                                                                                  Happy Birthday Princess,

                                                                                                                              Mommy

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Chantal

Hi, I’m Chantal. I’m a mom of two, self proclaimed naturalista, and Author of Growing Girls With Curls: Short Stories For Girls of Color. Being a mom is hard. Pair that with being a single, black, millennial in America and it’s a whole different monster. Feel free to join my mailing list and follow along as I blog through this crazy thing called life.

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25 Comments

  1. February 22, 2018 / 6:35 pm

    So sweet! Birthdays are always so bittersweet. She is beautiful!

  2. February 21, 2018 / 11:06 pm

    Happy birthday! I’ve liked 4 so far with my oldest daughter. What loving words you wrote!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 21, 2018 / 11:08 pm

      Thank you

  3. February 20, 2018 / 5:10 am

    What a great idea! My Baby J is turning one next weekend and I am totally stealing this idea from you! So awesome.

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 20, 2018 / 7:27 am

      Go for it lol

  4. February 19, 2018 / 8:36 pm

    This is so sweet and thoughtful! She will love to read this when she’s older! My first born is 5 months and I’m already getting sad haha! They grow too fast!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 20, 2018 / 7:27 am

      Lol thank you ❤️

  5. February 19, 2018 / 11:24 am

    Welp. It’s certainly hard to type with watery eyes. This is what got me – “I pray that as you get older, you continue to let your light shine” – I just want to put that on a plaque and hang it in my daughter’s room. What a serious job we mothers to little women have – making sure no one turns out that light. I wish you success but somehow get the feeling you won’t need any help keeping that light on. She looks like she threw out the switch. 🙂

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 12:26 pm

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️

  6. February 19, 2018 / 11:17 am

    Wow this is so amazing and touching. Happy birthday to your little bundle of cuteness!!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 11:20 am

      Thank you ❤️

  7. February 19, 2018 / 10:58 am

    Happy birthday to your sweet baby! She looks like a confident little girl and I hope she never loses that confidence.

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 11:00 am

      Thank you ❤️

  8. Theawkwardmomma
    February 19, 2018 / 10:56 am

    Thank you for sharing with us! This is beautiful. Happy birthday sweet girl!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 11:00 am

      Thank you ❤️

  9. February 19, 2018 / 10:29 am

    My daughters are obsessed with pink color so pink is meant to be for girls!!!? it’s really touchy when your emotions are just expressed by words…bless u girl..have a fantastic birthday ever.

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 11:00 am

      Thank you ❤️

  10. Floby
    February 19, 2018 / 9:58 am

    This is so touching, I have written my daughter letters when she was in my tummy yet, like day this and that and my thought about. So touching!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 11:00 am

      Thank you ❤️

  11. February 19, 2018 / 9:27 am

    This is a beautiful letter. Happy birthday to your beautiful girl!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 9:31 am

      Thank you ❤️

  12. February 19, 2018 / 9:13 am

    Happy birthday little princess!!!

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 9:14 am

      Thank You !! ❤️

  13. February 19, 2018 / 9:05 am

    Happy birthday to her! ?

    • Chantal
      Author
      February 19, 2018 / 9:09 am

      Thank you ❤️